Picking up the Pieces
Quote
of the Day"If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces,
never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again."– Flavia
Weedn
I
read this quote of the day in one of my emails today and it got me
thinking about how many times we make lemonade and applesauce in our
lives. Not sure of what I'm talking about? When I was a child, when
something bad happened my grandmother always said that you take the
rotten apples and make applesauce with it. The premise was taking
something broken, rotten or bad, and making it into something useful or
good out of it.
I've lived by this principle my
whole life. Writing is another way for me to make applesauce out of
what life dishes out. On my other site, I used to use the heading, "Where
Murphy's Law and the Luck of the Irish Combine in Writing." Now, I'm
only Irish by marriage, but Murphy's Law reads...whatever can go wrong;
will go wrong. Luck of the Irish is self-explanatory. When you combine
the two you reach a status quo between bad and good. Sort of. It takes a
little extra effort to look for the blessing or good stuff in
everything bad that happens. I look at it as grist for the writing mill. Everything that has or will happen to me gives me first hand experiences to incorporate into my writing.
For example, I was
in a head-on collision a couple of years ago. That is a very bad
thing, I'm sure everyone can agree. Both automobiles were totaled.
Here's my view on the situation. All the vehicles were totaled, but
everyone walked away from the accident with a few broken bones and
bruises. Cars can be replaced; people can not. Sure broken bones are a
royal pain as they heal, but you can not heal from death.
The
hospital did a CT scan because the x-rays showed something strange and
they wanted a better view. The CT showed tumors in my abdomen. I've had some pretty major surgery in the past few years.
Now, everyone hears tumor and thinks cancer. I was one of those also. I
cried. I pitched a fit big-time. I prayed. Then I chose action and a
proactive stance over self-pity. Now don't get me wrong, there is
nothing wrong with sitting on the pity-pot, but just don't make it a
life long ambition. It's just not what I'm about.
I
finally reached a point of peace with the whole issue. I figured if I
didn't wake up from surgery then my job here on Earth was complete and I
could go on to a place where Murphy's Law didn't existed. Not a bad
thing considering my life. If I woke up from surgery then my job here on
Earth was not complete. Something was left undone. Either way it was
out of my hands. So many people scramble to pick up all the pieces of
the problem or their lives to keep control. An example of the shattered
glass or shattered dreams. Inner peace is more important than control.
I
had surgery, complications, and the healing took months instead of weeks. It was a growing experience. If I had not had my accident, the tumors
would still be in my body...growing and making me ill. Considering my
heart stopped twice during surgery, I'm still here writing. The
shattered dreams and glass of the accident are past. There it will
remain until forgotten. What is important is that I am here, doing what
has to be done. Writing, learning, advocating, teaching, and loving
everything around me. So my pretty car is gone. It was replaced. The
other people involved are living their lives to the fullest. Let's be
honest here, not too many people walk away from a head-on collision
without permanent damage. The three of us had a wake up call. Look at
the shattered pieces of your dreams, stop trying to pick up ALL the
pieces, pick one and create something wonderful.
Keep writing and loving the Lord.
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